I love my man but he fucks me in the ass.

Hello girl, 14 years. 

I understand that you love your man, that is a good thing. 

You must talk to him about this! It is you that decides what you want to be a part of, and what you don't! He cannot force you to do something that you don't want to do. You decide where your boundaries are. No one can force you to do anything that you don't want to do yourself.

If your man is older than you, and over 16 years, he cannot have sexual interactions with you. It is forbidden and it is he who has the legal responsibility not to have sexual interactions with you.

You can talk to the health care nurse/helsesøster/helsesykepleier! If it is hard to explain, you can bring a screenshot of what you wrote and the answer. Then you don't have to say so much in the beginning.

You are valuable and important!

I hope this is of help to you and I wish you all the best!

Best regards spesialist i sexologisk rådgivning (NACS), ung.no