I think I might be gay!
Gutt, 18
I think I might be gay. I have been in love with a guy lately and didn’t know what to do, I don’t want to be gay. And do you have any tips for how to have sex with a guy, I want to try it? And should I wear a condom
Svar
Hi,
Thank you for writing your question to us.
I understand that you are confused about to feelings.
But take your time. There is no need to rush into a decision or tell anyone about your exploration or come out gay. Clarity often comes with time, so give yourself a chance to fully discover your sexuality. And if it does turn out that you are gay, remember that there is nothing wrong with being gay – it is just part of who you are.
Many gay men, just like some straight men and women, aren’t attracted to the idea of analsex and do not engage in it.
This might lead straight people to wonder if a gay person who doesn’t enjoy anal sex can fully enjoy a sexual experience with other gay people, and the answer is of course yes, they can.
Sexual enjoyment can be experienced in many forms, such as oral, and still lead to a satisfying sex life for a gay man.
Gay people enjoy the same intimate pleasures sex has to offer and are turned on by the excitement and physicality with our sexual partners in the same way straight people are.
There really is no difference between straight and gay sex besides the fact we are having sex with people of the same gender.
So as mention it`s up to you and your partner to decide what kind of sex you both want to have.
Yes, you should always use condom!
Wish you all the best.
Vennlig hilsen
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Besvart: 12.4.2023
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