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What is bullying? Was she bullied?

Jente, 15

Hi this is about what happened in my childhood (4-10) I got physical scars from stuff a group of kids did (threw rocks, pushed, kicked, threw stuff at me etc) and I got mean stares, got choked, left out, my stuff was taken from me, talking about me behind my back etc. but i don’t know if I was bullied or not and im honestly wondering where on the way it becomes bullying. So im asking here cause I can’t find an answer on the internet.

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Hello,

I´m so glad that you took the time to write to ung.no. I would definately say that you have been av victim of bullying

Bullying can be understood as "an ongoing and deliberate misuse of power in relationships through repeated verbal, physical and/or social behaviour that intends to cause physical, social and/or psychological harm." I would say, from what you have written that you can tick off all of the above. Don´t you?

I hope things have changed and that you have good friends that care for about you, and that you care about. If you need someone to talk to about what you have experienced so that you can find peace with your experiences I recommend that you have a talk with for example the school nurse in your school. She is there to help you.

Good luck to you!

All the best.

Besvart: 1.8.2022

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